On Mental Health
"I am mentally ill. Im not embarrassed about it. And I have written my best work not when flirting with the brink, but when treating my chronic health problem with consistency and care."
-John Green
"I am mentally ill. Im not embarrassed about it. And I have written my best work not when flirting with the brink, but when treating my chronic health problem with consistency and care."
-John Green
ON TOXIC PEOPLE:
When a Toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The Misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth like... just like you did. -anon
When a Toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The Misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth like... just like you did. -anon
Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on people's problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back. Sadly, you can only express your opinion on a situation. You can’t want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down one's throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn't meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people’s colors. We have to learn to believe the love we ARENT given. You can’t love someone into loving you (though we wish it were that easy). You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it’s for their own good! You have to understand some things ARE supposed to happen in your life but they just are NOT meant to be. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix whats maybe meant to stay broken. Do not put your happiness on hold for someone who isn’t holding onto you.
-KK